Want to change your life? Here’s the #1 Mindset Shift you need!
Have you ever just felt… DONE? Whatever the cause, I think we ALL hit that point every now and then— and it’s such a good (but hard) place to be. Keep reading to learn more about the #1 Mindset Shift you NEED to change your life.
A few weeks before Thanksgiving (2020), I was getting ready for the day and started to pull on my jeans. As usual, I had to do that annoying “wiggle-dance” to get them over my booty. 🙄 Suddenly, a thought hit me like a ton of bricks:
I. WAS. DONE.
I grabbed my phone, looked up Noom, (which I'd heard good really things about!)… and completed the quiz, and signed up for a trial. I didn't know if it would work. Heck, I didn't know if we could afford it! I just knew that I couldn't live with indecision and frustration any longer.
Have you ever hit a point like that? where you're just… DONE?
That point where you just can’t take it any longer. Maybe someone has taken advantage of you one-too-many times, or you're tired of feeling a certain way every day. Whatever the reason, you are DONE. Here's the thing:
I think that being DONE is the best thing that can ever happen to you.
In my own experience, being “DONE” has been the catalyst for some of the best changes in my life. Now, to be fair, it's usually uncomfortable, and sometimes, painful growth.
*Please Note; I didn't say the EASIEST. I said the BEST.
Here's why being “DONE” can change your life:
You will do ANYTHING to find the answer.
It's not the same as wishing for change, or saying “It would be nice if…” Being “DONE” is a no-holding-back kind of energy. You don't care what it takes. You don't care how long it takes. You don't care if it's perfect. You'll do WHATEVER it takes to get where you want to go.
It comes from INSIDE yourself.
From my experience, that “DONE” feeling usually hits quickly, but that's because it's been building up in you for years. Being “done” is rarely just a rash decision. It's not something that someone else can give you; it's got to come from a FIRE inside of you. The most life-altering changes come from a passionate desire for change.
The FIRE inside you won't go away.
I’m not saying you’ll never make mistakes. You'll still see ebbs and flows in your journey, and you might struggle with consistency… but you'll experience a different kind of “sticking-with-it” than you ever have before. And the changes you work towards will be much more likely to STICK. 🙌🏻
As usually happens with those “Being Done” moments, everything has changed. I'm down 10 pounds (so far!). 🥳 I’ve stuck with this new change because “being done” means that I’m finally ready to do whatever it takes to create change in my life. And yes, there have been many ebbs and flows on this journey so far, but I’m pretty sure that the changes are here to stay.
